Linds - just eat. I've been where you are and it's exhausting. Not eating fucks you up for years, trust me. A little butt isn't all that bad...and the cracked-out/stalker thing really isn't gonna win Wilmer back. Have you not read the tabloids? He's a little scared. Plus, do you really want him back? He's an American Idol reject doppelganger who serially prays on nubile teenage starlets. He's the LA version of Jamison Ernest. I'd stick with Johnny Knoxville in a heartbeat.